Saturday, June 14, 2008

broken heart's recovery time

Can a broken heart recovers quickly after break up? Find it here!

I am one of us!(my heart is quite broken as well..huhu)
Take time to read it. This will help you know when can a broken heart recover after the break-up.

Time is really the true healer of a broken heart. That is why, we really have to suffer the pain when it is still fresh! No matter what we do and how we forced to ignore it when the wound is still fresh, the agony continues. I got this from http://healmybrokenheart.com/
I was intrigued by its calculation. hehe. Nice!

I've tried to calculate mine too. I and my boy friend reached 1 year and 7 months and the result of my calculation is 1. So, it means i have to feel the agony for 1 year according to the heart calculator. waaahhh! How sad. hehe. But, it is just a game.


Short relationships (3 MONTHS OR LESS)


  1. count the number of weeks that you knew the person before the relationship turned romantic, and then divide this number by 2

  2. count the number of weeks that you were romantically involved

  3. add-up A and B

  4. count the average number of days per week you saw him/her during the romance, and divide this number by 2

  5. multiply C and D - that's how many weeks it will take to begin feeling normal

Example: Lou met Barb. After 4 weeks they started dating. They dated for 8 weeks, seeing each other an average of 4 nights per week. Then Barb left. It will take Lou's heart about 20 weeks (or just under 5 months) to recover.

Mid-length relationships (1 YEAR OR LESS)


  1. count the number of months that you were romantically involved

  2. count the average number of days per week you saw him/her during the romance, and divide this number by 2

  3. multiply A and B - that's how many months it will take to begin feeling normal

Example: Dave met Sandra. They had a passionate romance for 8 months, seeing each other about 3 times per week. Then Sandra left. It will take Dave's heart about 12 months (1 year) to recover.

Long relationships (1 YEAR OR MORE)


  1. estimate how happy you were (day to day) on a scale of 1 to 3

  2. estimate how physically attractive you found your mate on a scale of 1 to 3

  3. add up A and B - and then divide this number by 2-- this will give you a number in years

  4. subtract one year from the total

Example: John was happily married to Mary (he ranked his happiness a 2 out of 3. He found Mary very attractive, a 3 out of 3. Mary leaves. John's heart will take 1 ½ years to recover.

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